• About
  • Contact
  • Testimonials
  • Newsletter
  • More
    • Demographics & Advertising Rates
    • Terms & Conditions
Thursday, March 23, 2023
No Result
View All Result
California Business Journal
  • Front Page
  • Business
  • Finance
  • People
  • Featured
  • Opinion
  • Technology
  • Law
  • News
  • Food
  • Art & Culture
  • Human Interest
  • Education
  • Insurance
  • Real Estate
  • Health & Fitness
California Business Journal
Career, Family or Love -- Which Should You Prioritize After Your Divorce

Career, Family or Love: Which Should You Prioritize After Your Divorce?

A divorce can leave you confused and make you question what steps to take next. But it’s prime time to focus on other aspects of your life.

by California Business Journal Editorial Staff
A A
Share on FacebookShare on Twitter

Everyday activities that you didn’t consider significant before your divorce, might now be a top priority. You might use the divorce as a reason to make substantial changes to your life, such as moving house, finding a new partner, or changing career paths.

Juggling your priorities during a divorce can be challenging, so speaking to others – whether that’s friends, family, or divorce lawyers – can often help. Take time to figure out your next steps and evaluate all aspects of your life before you move forward.

In this article, we’ll discuss how to prioritize the key aspects of your personal and work life, to help you come to terms with where your life is taking you. Read on to find out more…

How Can You Prioritize Your Family After a Divorce?

If you have children with your ex-spouse, it’s likely that they will feel like their world is falling apart, especially when it comes to the involvement of custody lawyers. They will need your support whilst they try to understand why their parents are no longer married or living together. It might come as a hard adjustment to them; even if you’ve already moved on from the situation, they will need time.

ADVERTISEMENT

If you choose to prioritize your family, there are several things that you can do to help them through the divorce process. Here’s how:

Reassure Them

Some children believe that they are the reason for their parent’s divorce, or worse, they worry that because their parents don’t love each other anymore, that they won’t be loved either. Let them know it isn’t their fault. Tell them that you love them, and that feeling won’t ever go away.

Explain The Reason Why

It’s common to want to hold information back from your children to avoid hurting them, but this can sometimes do more harm than good. Instead, try explaining the situation and the reasons for the divorce to your children to help them come to terms with things.

Arrange a Fair Co-parenting Schedule with Your Ex-spouse

By the time your divorce is finalized, custody will have been determined for your children. This isn’t a time to put your needs first; your children need to come first. They need to be able to see both of their parents, and it would be unfair for you to prevent that. It might be that you have them for half the week, and your spouse has them for the other half.

Career, Family or Love -- Which Should You Prioritize After Your DivorceHow Can You Prioritize Your Career After a Divorce?

The finalizing of your divorce might be an exciting step in your life, especially if you had put your career on hold because of your marriage. Whether it’s finding a new job that you have always wanted to do or increasing your working hours to full-time, try to fully focus on your career needs.

On the other hand, a divorce might complicate matters in your career, especially if you have young children. If you’re a single parent and have full-time custody, you may find that you don’t have as much time for your career as you previously did. However, if you do have the ability to make your career your sole priority, these are some of the things you can do:

Talk to Your Management

If you are already employed, sit down with your manager, and discuss what you would like your next steps to be. It might be that you want to progress through the business, or you are interested in more training opportunities.

Go Back to Education

If you have an idea in mind about what career you want to pursue, but you need certain qualifications to do so, then consider applying for higher education to refresh your CV.

Apply to Jobs

If you didn’t have a job whilst married, it’s the perfect time for you to get job hunting if your career is the top of your agenda. You can use websites such as LinkedIn and Indeed to find the job you’re looking for.

How Can You Prioritize Your Love Life After a Divorce?

Love might be the last thing on your mind after your divorce, or you might be keen to start afresh with someone new. Often people spend many unhappy years in their marriage before ending it so, it’s not uncommon to want to find a partner that they connect with and create a future with.

Go on Dating Apps

If you are interested in entering the dating world again, it might be worth signing up for dating apps such as as Tinder or Bumble. There are no commitments with dating apps. You have complete autonomy over who you want to get to know; the apps don’t put any unnecessary pressure on you.

Figure Out What You Want from a Relationship

Once you’ve had the time to grieve the end of your marriage, you might start thinking about what you want next in a relationship. It might be that you and your ex-spouse never had children, and that’s what you want next. One thing is for sure; you’re likely to know exactly what traits you do and don’t want in a person after your previous relationship.

Career, Family or Love – Which One Is Your Priority?

If none of these call out to you as being your main priority after your divorce, then maybe your priorities lie elsewhere. It could be that you want to focus on self-love, want to take the time to explore the world, or perhaps you want to learn a new talent.

Whatever your calling may be, be sure to follow it as it’ll help to make the divorce process easier for you.

Related Posts

angry couple
'My Job is Planning the Divorce ... On The First Date.'
Child Custody Lawyer Cost Factors
Child Custody Lawyer Cost Factors
DIVORCE WHISPERER
Lobby Power walk
Divorce.Legal: 21st Century Strategy for Divorce
Stressed Businessman Sitting In Office
Does Work Performance Change When an Employee Goes Through a Divorce?
featured pix
MASTER MEDIATOR
alone at beach
One Fine Outlook
Couples upset
Recovering From a Divorce
divorce
Sturgeon Bay, Wisconsin has a marriage rate of 59% and a divorce rate of 12.40%. Many couples in the city are looking to find a legal and more amicable way to separate from their spouses.
Divorce Recovery Experts Colleen McNamee, Dr. Jeanne Michele and Daryl Cole, CFP® are collaborating to handle every element of separation.
The Divorce Trifecta
What's The Average Cost For A Divorce in California?
What's The Average Cost For A Divorce in California?
Ana Venice1
“I don’t give in, I don’t give up – I just give more.”
Tags: childrendivorceeducationexplorefocusinformationLinkedIntraining
ADVERTISEMENT
California Business Journal Editorial Staff

California Business Journal Editorial Staff

Related Posts

Child Custody Lawyer Cost Factors
Child Custody Lawyer Cost Factors
What's The Average Cost For A Divorce in California?
What's The Average Cost For A Divorce in California?
divorce
Sturgeon Bay, Wisconsin has a marriage rate of 59% and a divorce rate of 12.40%. Many couples in the city are looking to find a legal and more amicable way to separate from their spouses.
Couples upset
Recovering From a Divorce
Divorce Recovery Experts Colleen McNamee, Dr. Jeanne Michele and Daryl Cole, CFP® are collaborating to handle every element of separation.
The Divorce Trifecta
alone at beach
One Fine Outlook
angry couple
'My Job is Planning the Divorce ... On The First Date.'
Stressed Businessman Sitting In Office
Does Work Performance Change When an Employee Goes Through a Divorce?
Lobby Power walk
Divorce.Legal: 21st Century Strategy for Divorce
Ana Venice1
“I don’t give in, I don’t give up – I just give more.”
DIVORCE WHISPERER
featured pix
MASTER MEDIATOR
advertisement
ADVERTISEMENT

CBJ Newsletter

Facebook Twitter LinkedIn Instagram LinkedIn

Advertise With CBJ

Contact Rick@CalBizJournal.com

CBJ Rates and Demographics

Job Postings

CEO Wanted


Requirements: BS/BA + 2yrs of Business Managing Experience

Mail Resume: Grand Life, Inc. 14647 Northam St. La Mirada, CA 90638.

$114,754/year

ADVERTISEMENT
1REALTOUR-SAN DIEGO-WEB DESIGN
Facebook Twitter LinkedIn LinkedIn Instagram Youtube
C B J   LOGO  SVG-01
  • About
  • Contact California Business Journal
  • Testimonials
  • Demographics & Advertising Rates
  • Terms & Conditions

Categories

  • Art & Culture
  • Business
  • California Hotel Listings
  • Daily Updates
  • Editor's Choice
  • Education
  • Featured
  • Finance
  • Food & Dining
  • Health & Fitness
  • Human Interest
  • Insurance
  • Law
  • Lawyers
  • Marketing
  • Medical
  • News
  • Newsletter
  • Opinion
  • People
  • Popular
  • Real Estate
  • Social Media
  • Technology
  • Uncategorized

CBJ Partner Firebrand Media

Laguna Beach Independent Newspaper
 Laguna Beach City Guide
 Newport Beach Independent Newspaper
Newport Beach Country Club Magazine
  Montage Magazine
 Omni Escapes Hotel Magazine
 Bespoke Concierge New York
 Evans Hotels
 Laguna Beach Magazine
 On The Menu Laguna Beach
 Newport Beach Magazine
Coastal Real Estate Guide (NB,LB, CDM)
Monarch Beach Resort Magazine
 Pacific Coast Magazine (SoCal)
Sea Island Life Magazine
Salamander Hotel & Resorts Magazine
 View our entire portfolio

 

Most Viewed

  • Gavel, scales of justice and law books

    Lawsuit Basics: How Much Does It Cost to Sue Someone?

    0 shares
    Share 0 Tweet 0
  • Investigation: Can TriumphFX Take Your Money?

    0 shares
    Share 0 Tweet 0
  • The Impact of Covid: Racing to Buy Second Citizenships

    3 shares
    Share 0 Tweet 0
  • What to Do When an Online Casino Refuses to Pay Out Your Winnings

    0 shares
    Share 0 Tweet 0
  • The Truth About Temu: Where Is It From?

    0 shares
    Share 0 Tweet 0
  • Top 5 Flavors On Elf Bar BC5000 Review

    0 shares
    Share 0 Tweet 0
  • NFL Paychecks: How Do NFL Players Get Paid?

    0 shares
    Share 0 Tweet 0
  • Temu’s New Shipping Policy Is A Smashing Hit For Shoppers All Over the Country

    0 shares
    Share 0 Tweet 0
  • Five Reasons Why The Government Does Not Like Bitcoin

    0 shares
    Share 0 Tweet 0
  • How to Start a Telecommunication Business: A Step-By-Step Guide

    0 shares
    Share 0 Tweet 0

Latest Articles

Retail App Development: Details You Need To Know To Get a Good ROI

Retail App Development: Details You Need To Know To Get a Good ROI

The Role of Marketing Firms in an Organization: Benefits and Drawbacks

The Role of Marketing Firms in an Organization: Benefits and Drawbacks

How to Prevent Indoor Air Allergies: 5 Important Tips

How to Prevent Indoor Air Allergies: 5 Important Tips

Unleashing the Secrets of Z-library: How to Discover Rare Books with Ease?

Unleashing the Secrets of Z-library: How to Discover Rare Books with Ease?

Five Ways an MBA Helps take Your Career to New Heights

Five Ways an MBA Helps take Your Career to New Heights

What Do I Need to Do to Get a Small Business Loan?

What Do I Need to Do to Get a Small Business Loan?

Cannabis Seeds: What Are the Basics?

Cannabis Seeds: What Are the Basics?

How to Decide Whether Immunotherapy for Cancer Is the Right Choice?

How to Decide Whether Immunotherapy for Cancer Is the Right Choice?

Is it Possible to Become Rich By Currency Trading?

Is it Possible to Become Rich By Currency Trading?

10 Ways to Increase a Home’s Curb Appeal for Buyers

10 Ways to Increase a Home’s Curb Appeal for Buyers

California Business Journal | California Business News, California News Media, California business articles | Orange County, Los Angeles, San Diego, Inland Empire, Northern California, San Francisco | Huntington Beach CA 92649 | (949) 648-3815
ALL RIGHTS RESERVED BY CALIFORNIA BUSINESS JOURNAL.
Site Design by 1REALTOUR

No Result
View All Result
  • Front Page
  • Business
  • Finance
  • People
  • Featured
  • Opinion
  • Technology
  • Law
  • News
  • Food
  • Art & Culture
  • Human Interest
  • Education
  • Insurance
  • Real Estate
  • Health & Fitness

California Business Journal | California Business News, California News Media, California business articles | Orange County, Los Angeles, San Diego, Inland Empire, Northern California, San Francisco | Huntington Beach CA 92649 | (949) 648-3815
ALL RIGHTS RESERVED BY CALIFORNIA BUSINESS JOURNAL.
Site Design by 1REALTOUR